All will be changed

Life is a wonderful journey which has highly variable possibility. You don’t know what’s going to happen in the next second. Planning is always unable to compete with changed.

This year, our company changed a lot. Many colleagues resigned to find better offer. This time, it was my nice superior. Most of my colleagues are surprised to hear the news. He resigned without anyone knowing it, include me.

Actually, a colleague had told me my superior would resign when he finish his master course. He had just finished his last exam at last 2 weeks. I thought he wouldn’t resign so fast.

Suddenly, I found myself feeling hurt. I asked him how come he leaves me alone. Why he was not a person who accompany me to the last？

This was the fact despite I don’t want. The thing I could do now is send my best wishes to him I hope he can do well at the new company. Finally, he can fly higher and get the freedom he wants.

He really can get the better offer because he worth it. He will pay effort to achieve the target. After he joined the company, he has run a lot of promotional activities which bring sales growth to the company every year. That’s why we travel to oversea and have incentives.

Such achievement can’t be done by him alone, it require the effort and team spirit of all the members. Without any of them, the program also couldn’t run smoothly.

We have been working together for almost 6 years he taught me a lot of knowledge and skill. Even though I usually angry and argued with him, he still treated me so well, never scolded me.

I think I couldn't get another superior as good as him. People come and go in our life. It’s a normal phenomenon. I need to learn to accept it. Many things are waiting for me to follow up. I hope I can handle it.

We can’t foresee the future, yet, we could do the best at the moment and leave the future unfold.

24/8/2011


一切都將改變

生命是一條奇妙的旅程，它充滿了許多的變數。你不會知道下一秒會發生什麼事。計劃永遠趕不上變化。

今年，公司變了很多。許多同事紛紛離職去尋找更好的待遇。現在，輪到我的好好上司。大部分的同事都對我好好上司的辭職感到驚訝。他辭職得太突然，所有人包括我都蒙在鼓裡。

其實，曾有同事告訴過我，他讀完碩士課程後就會離職。他在上兩個星期才考完試，沒想到他會這麼快辭職。

突然間，那股濃濃的不捨湧了上來。我問他怎麼丟我一個人，為什麼他不是陪我到最後的人？

不管接不接受都好，這已經是鐵一般的事實。我只能祝福他，在新的公司做得更好。他終於能翱翔萬里，得到想要的自由自在。

他其實值得去拿到這份優渥的工作。他會全神貫注去達到目標。自從他來公司後，大大小小的宣傳活動，讓我們的業績每年直線上升。這就是我們為何能去外國旅遊和拿到獎勵金的原因。

當然，達到業績目標並不是他一個人的功勞，還有公司全體同仁的合作和努力。沒有了他們任何一個人，活動也不會順利進行。

我們在一起快六年了，他教我很多知識和技巧。就算我每次對他生氣和爭吵，他仍然對我很好，從未罵過我。

我想我不會再遇到像他這麼好的上司。人生總有聚散，它就是一個自然現象。 我要學會接受這個事實。很多事情還有待我去跟進。我希望我能處理好它。

我們不能預測自己的未來，但是我們能把現在做到最好，展開更美好的未來。

依依不捨的海角@寫於貳零壹壹年捌月廿肆日

Shut Up! Just Do it!

Finally, I’ve finished reading Alan Eiew’s book I took me one month time to finish up, more than what I had expected.

I even stop reading < Encho Legacy>. I have so many things to learn, I don’t know which one come first.

The writer is a motivational speaker. He has been participated in a lot of seminars, because he likes to learn new thing to improve himself.

He is different form others motivational speakers who just focused on the methods to motivate someone, Alan emphasis on taking action to realize your dream. If we keep thinking about our dream without any acotion or put it into the hand of fate, we wouldn’t go anywhere.

One of the features of this book is that writer will play with the words that will intrigue reader to keep reading on.

I could feel the sincerity of the writer through his writing which didn’t intended to create the fantasy of being succeful easily.

He said that the successful person didn’t cheat you ; they just didn’t tell you everything.

Why some people can achieve successdul but not us? They don’t rely on luck, they just did their best and lyck will follow as a bonus to compensate their hard work.

Besides, they had strong desire to motivate themselves, the most important trait they possess is being persistent which I’m lack of. I’m type of person who give up easily

Every day we need to face a lot of problem in our life. The day we stop facing problem is the day our life stopped. Actually, those problems are helping us to growth, to be mature.

Problems are ordeal sent by God. When we could solve those problems successfully, mean we also learned a new skill on solving problems.

One day, when you look back to all the past events in your life, you’ll be happy thay you’d made a right decision of changing your life.

I like these ideas from the book:

Firstly, matters are neutral. However, different people take different approach in dealing with it because everyone has different emotion and thinking over the matter.

Secondly, you just have to be the only one, but not the number 1.

Why? If you are No.1, one day you will replace by others. When you are the only one, nobody can replace you. You are the special one in the world!

Third, you must ask a lot of question to help you find yourself like Who you are? What you want to do and etc. This is your life; you can control your fate.

This book really gave me a lot of ideas. Actually until now, I am still looking for my goal. I start to feeling loss and don’t know what I want although I have been asked myself numerous of times. I tried to find it by myself, no matter how difficult it is. This is a promise to myself.


Shut Up!去做！

我終於啃完游永濟的《Shut Up！去做！》。這本書，花了我一個月的時間才看完，比預期中的時間更久。沒辦法，這段時間都沉迷在英文文字中，實在沒多少時間能看書。 

就連《三毛傳奇》也暫時讓路，太多東西要學，都不曉得該先學什麼。

作者是位激勵講師。他到處去參加課程，就因為他喜歡學習，以提升自己。

這本書強調必須行動，才能有美夢成真的一天。就不像其他激勵講師，把焦點都放在如何激勵別人而已。若衹是想或靠運氣，最後我們將會一無所有。

它的特色就是作者會在每篇文章中，放下一個伏筆。然後在每篇文章的最後留下省略號，讓讀者繼續閱讀下去，不失為一個好技巧。

從作者的字裡行間，我能感受到他的真誠。他不會給你怎樣成功的泡影。

他說成功者說的都是真話，他們衹是沒把話都說得徹底。

為什麼成功者會有成就，偏偏不是我們？ 他們不靠運氣，衹是把想要做的事做好，運氣就會像個獎勵隨之而來。

除此之外，他們也有強烈的慾望推動他們。最重要的是他們都堅持到底。這就是我所缺乏的，我太容易放棄。總是想做自己喜歡的事，卻沒為將來深思熟慮。 我真的希望自己從現在起能改掉這陋習。

每一天，我們都要面對生命中的許許多多問題。當我們有天不再有問題，也就證明生命就此停頓。問題是來自生命中的停留。其實，那些問題是來幫助我們成長那個和變成熟。它們是上天派來的間諜來考驗我們。 當我們能成功解決問題，表示我們也學多一樣解決問題的技巧。

有天，驀然回首，你會很慶幸當初改變生活，是對的決定。

我也喜歡裡頭的幾個點子：

第一， 事情本事都是中立的，是不同人的處理方式造成了不同的結果。畢竟人就是加自己的情緒和意見，導致不同的結果。

第二， 你要成為唯一而非第一！

為啥呢？倘若你是第一，總有一天會給人取代。可當你是唯一時，無人能替代。你是全世界獨一無二的人。

第三， 在尋找自己的過程中，你須問自己許多問題，如你是誰，你想做什麼等。這是你的生命，你能自己做主。

這本書確實給了我很多點子。其實，到目前為止，我仍在尋找著自己的目標。我開始覺得茫然，也不知道該怎麼做。雖然，我問了自己無數次，依舊是個問號。但是，就算多艱難都好，我也得嘗試自己去尋找。這是我對自己的承諾。

過著開心學習生活的海角@寫於貳零壹壹年捌月拾陸日

Just a starting

*此照片為網上摘取。

First, I need to thanks Alan Eiew. Because I had read his book , gave an example to his reader on how to start a blog and maintain the passion to write the blog. I got the idea for that, so I want to get a start for blogging in English.

I want to find my own way to improve my English skill, blog is a good medium for me. I had never been blogging in English before this. Never try never know.

When I want to start it, I faced some problems, especially on my typo errors and grammar mistakes. So, I tried to get help form Yean. Thanks for her kindness helps.

Besides that, you are also my teachers. If I make any mistake, just let me know. I will appreciate your comments and I even encourage you to do so.

English is my weakness, but I believe that I can make it become my advantage. I just need time and effort to practice it. Although I had done a lot of researches before I start this blog, but I don’t think it’s enough yet. I’ve tried to improve through constructing own sentences.

Life is just like a present continuous tense. We need to keep changing our life and fate. I hope I can keep my passion for blogging in English.

12/8/2011


衹是個開始

首先，我想謝謝游永濟。因為我就是看了他的書《Shut Up，去做！》，他給了讀者一個例子，怎樣開始部落格和維持寫部落格的熱情。我在當中得到了啟發，所以想要寫英文部落格。

我想用自己的方式去提升自己的英文技巧，部落格就是一個很好的媒介。我從沒寫過英文部落格，但沒嘗試過，怎麼知道結果如何，畢竟做過方知結果。

當我要開始寫時，我面對一些問題，尤其是我的錯字和錯誤的語法。唯有向小朋友求救，真謝謝她的好心幫忙。

除此之外，你們也是我的老師。若發現我有任何錯誤，也歡迎你們的指點，我會虛心接受，並真心感謝。

英文是我的弱點，但我相信能把它變成我的優點。我衹是需要時間和努力去搞好它。雖然，在還沒開始這個部落格前，我就做了很多的練習，但我仍覺得不夠。我想要的是通過自己造句來提升我的英文。

生命就像是現在進行式，我們需要不停地去改變自己的人生和命運。我希望自己能保有繼續寫英文部落格的熱情。

有了新嘗試的海角@寫於貳零壹壹年捌月拾貳日

吃東西不可以有聲音

老媽子不喜歡我們吃東西時，發出任何聲音。因為，她會覺得那是很難聽且不禮貌的行為，我把它歸類在餐桌上的禮儀。

所以，從小到大，我們兄弟姐妹，不管吃喝東西時，皆要練到無聲無息。否則，耳聽八方的順風耳，會殺到來虐待我們的雙耳。

就連家中的小孩，亦無一倖免。每次，他們喝湯發出噓噓的聲音時，我立即凶神惡煞地說：“喝湯不可以有聲音！”

識趣的小傢伙，馬上安靜把湯含進去肚子裏，果然沒發出任何聲音。然後，帶著濃濃的童音，擡頭對我說：“沒有聲音了咯！”

小管家婆妞妞，聽到寧寧或她二哥恩恩發出聲音時，也似模似樣教訓他們說：“吃東西不可以有聲音。”

再不然，就對我說：“阿姨，妹妹吃東西有聲音。”

這下子，我的恰北北再也偽裝不來，忍俊不禁的開懷大笑。

家裏有這些小瓜，吵到半死，卻又有很多趣事可以分享。有時，我是大聲喝罵的黑臉；有時，我也會化身孩子王，帶頭去撒野、散步、採po po。甚至，做牛做馬讓他們騎個痛快。

所以，寧寧對我這位二姑，是又愛又怕。衹要我喊一聲，馬上逃之夭夭，沒了蹤影。

他則是無時無刻都是好人的角色。三個小瓜看到他，粘到像蜜糖似的，任他們撲上去，亂鑽一輪也無所謂。倒是，我們這些旁人看不過眼，呵呵。。

不知道為什麼，看著眼前打成一片的大人小孩，突然覺得自己，很幸福。

發著幸福春秋大夢的海角@寫於貳零壹壹年捌月拾日

飛不起的飛鴿

我討厭，到飛鴿公司去辦事。每次，看到他們在耍慢，就很想上前去罵人。今天，逼不得已又要走一趟，再次給他們氣到怒火沖天，想打人發洩。

明明是半小時內能完成的任務，結果，得用上一小時來乾等，又不讓我們先上貨。執行任務者沒到，整間公司沒人知道他文件放那裡，電話原來是放著擺美。複印一張文件，是要到荷蘭兜一圈才能回來，哪怕荷蘭明明就近在咫尺。

現在，就連進一張支票，都要有銀行發給公司的保證單，怕死我們不還錢。

生意差了，轉個身，把所有的費用，都轉嫁到顧客身上。拿個回扣，所有原本屬於他們的工作，變成我們要幫他們完成。

明明有一雙手，卻用來袖手旁觀，要不然就坐在欄杆上發簡訊。等到最後不耐煩，才教我們怎樣放進車。

媽的，怪不得肚腩越來越大。這樣的工作態度，怎敢要求他們進步？能保持水準，就該殺雞還神了。


一肚子火的海角@寫於貳零壹壹年捌月肆日

最後的淚光

過去的七月，心情起伏得厲害，才明白，原來一天內，可以發生很多事情。就連開電腦都不想，所以，部落格或文章，都交了白卷。

一天內，去見好友新生兒的同時，卻相繼接到另一位好友母親和姑婆過世，未及喘氣，又得趕去老姐新家的入夥晚餐。整個人恍恍惚惚的，不曉得自己究竟在做些什麼。

心情一直恢復不過來，卻知道這樣下去不是辦法。結果，要自己把壞情緒一條條寫在日記上，自我心理輔導做調整，才撥開烏雲，觸摸到陽光的溫暖。

過去的，終究已過去，即使我無法接受事實亦然。衹是，在看著生離死別的場面時，眼淚依舊沾滿衣襟。所以，我遲遲不肯寫這篇部落格。

至今，姑婆的九十三位孫子，圍著她的棺木，唱著《阿嬤的話》的場景，又在腦海裏播放：

阿嬤你今嘛在叨位　阮在叫你你甘有聽到
阮的認真甲阮的成功你甘有看到　阮在叫你你知影沒
阿嬤你今嘛過的好麼　甘有人塊甲你照顧
希望後世人阮擱會凍來乎你疼　作你永遠的孫仔
擱叫你一聲「阿嬤」

出殯前一晚和當天早上，廳內縈繞不去的歌聲，夾帶著許多人的哽咽。姑婆的遺容，我看了又看，仍然不相信她真的離我們而去。

五姑看著姑婆的遺容喊著：“阿姑啊，我找不到安呢好的阿姑了，我今後無阿姑叫了。”

我的眼淚流得更兇。是啊，沒有一個姑婆那麼好，臨終前，仍關心著我們這些外甥孫的近況。

健忘的她，不斷問著堂哥和德國大哥。衹是，她等到了堂哥一家的探望，卻等不到大哥一家人年尾的歸來。

從醫院回家後近一個月內，許多親朋戚友風塵僕僕趕來，大家都心裏有數。好些年不見的她，突然蒼老許多。看我們的雙眼，有時盡是茫然。明知道，該做好心理準備，得知她的離世，我的眼淚仍脫眶而出。

添寶表叔說，姑婆往生後，流了一行很長的淚水。的確，我在她闔上的眼睛處，看到未乾的淚水。

大家都紛紛猜測那行淚水的意思，或許，僅僅是對人世間依依不捨的最後淚光。

姑婆，您得找到丈公牽手一起走。來世，您也得來做我們的姑婆。

阿嬤的話

作詞：蕭煌奇　作曲：蕭煌奇　編曲：胡官宏

在細漢的時陣　阮阿嬤對我尚好　甲尚好的物伴攏會留乎我
伊嘛定定帶我去幼稚園看人在七桃
看人在辦公伙兒　看人在覓相找
伊定定跟阮說　叫阮著要好好仔讀冊
嘸通大漢像恁老爸仔這麼狼狽
在彼個時陣　阮攏聽攏嘸
阿嬤　你到底是在講什麼
大漢了後　才知影阿嬤的話
我會甲永遠永遠放塊心肝底
想可一步一步的過去　定定攏會乎人真難忘
時間一分一秒的過去　在阮的心內定定攏會想到伊
阿嬤你今嘛在叨位　阮在叫你你甘有聽到
阮的認真甲阮的成功你甘有看到　阮在叫你你知影沒
阿嬤你今嘛過的好麼　甘有人塊甲你照顧
希望後世人阮擱會凍來乎你疼　作你永遠的孫仔
擱叫你一聲「阿嬤」

淚濕的海角@寫於貳零壹壹年捌月叁日